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A GROWING WEB OF SUPPORT 

by Chris Hall 

  

Union Kentucky, Johnson City Tennessee, Oshawa Ontario, Kodak Tennessee, Edgewood Kentucky. Peg, Carol, Patti, Brenda, Chosh, Ron, Carl and Chris, (Cave Boy, Knife Boy and Tekkie Boy).

Seemingly random names and places that that may not appear to have a lot in common but they are in fact closely linked to each others and to a network of support. In each location lives one of the members of PLWP and their family. One member of each of those families lives with Parkinson’s Disease and last week they all met up to share some good times. They talked, lived everyday life (with a few twists), had fun, and were serious together. Parkinson’s Disease was not the main topic of conversation, but it was ever present – a common thread and adversary. No one in our little group was untouched by the disease. Each of us experienced in our own way a week of unique caring, understanding and learning that can only be provided by sharing times with those who are fighting the same war. We also had a very good time.

Our holiday together in Gatlinburg is just a tiny chunk of the story of connections that arose through People Living With Parkinsons (PLWP) and friendships forged as a result of what we all thought of as totally negative disease process. Each new relationship has led to a growth in our circle of support and a corresponding increase in our knowledge of how to live well (or at least as well as we can) with this disease. The week before last some of our group and others connected for another gathering in Illinois. The web of interconnected relationships becomes larger with each event. Upcoming are golf tournaments, super walks and dances – all really just excuses to get together.

When we first arrived on the web and found PLWP, friends and relatives were concerned that we would connect with the “wrong types” of people. Our instincts told us otherwise and we’re glad we followed them. We have met many people, some who have become close friends and very few of the "other" sort. We found support and information and learned to turn some of those big negatives into life challenges ... Expanding our horizons keeps us in better shape to deal with the disease prgression. Nobody likes having Parkinsons, but having someone with whom to share these experiences makes a big difference.

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